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Regina Brett's 45 life lessons and 5 to grow on

To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.
It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolls over to 50 this week, so here's an update:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
36. Growing old beats the alternative - dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
45. The best is yet to come.
46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
48. If you don't ask, you don't get.
49. Yield.
50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

最近做了这两个东东，效果很赞，而且简单易行！！下面附上我的独门实践箴言。

先说双皮奶
材料：一袋三元鲜奶，一个鸡蛋，蜂蜜若干
1.鲜奶热开，加些蜂蜜，倒入A碗中晾凉，上面结出一层奶皮。将奶慢慢倒入B碗中，把奶皮留在A碗里（注意，碗里要稍微留些奶，不然奶皮容易粘连）
2.将鸡蛋清倒入B碗中，搅匀。
3.将B碗中的奶慢慢倒回A碗中，使A碗中的奶皮浮起来。（实践证明，这不是那么容易做到的）
4.将A碗放入锅中蒸20分钟后，取出晾凉，放入冰箱，大概3，4个小时之后就能吃了。
当时我蒸完，看碗里还是液体状，心里小惊一下。放入冰箱，第二天早上拿出来的时候，就变成固状了，上面封着一层奶皮。超好吃！！

再说奶酪，这个略麻烦
材料：一袋三元鲜奶，醪糟（超市有卖），保鲜膜
1.鲜奶热开，晾凉后将奶皮去掉。
2.将奶和醪糟汁按照2：1的比例混合，搅拌（醪糟要汁，不要米）
3.用保鲜膜把碗包住，上面扎四五个小孔，静置40分钟左右。
4.用冷水上锅蒸，水开后大概蒸15分钟。关火，别开盖，闷15分钟以上。
5.取出后晾凉，然后放冰箱，大概3个小时左右，去掉保鲜膜，就能吃啦！！奶味特浓，而且没有醪糟的怪味